Harriet Hébert was born about 1850 in Clinton County, New York to Toussaint Hébert and Catherine Boire. She married Richard Lapan when she was 16 years old in Quebec, and the details become murky at that point. She appears next in 1880 in Bay County, Michigan with her husband and their children. She died from diabetes in the town of Fraser, and she is buried in the Saint Anne Catholic Cemetery in Linwood, Bay County, Michigan with other family members. The photograph you see comes from Find-A-Grave so I am unaware of where in the cemetery they are located.